Sunday, March 29, 2015

Negotiating for a kitten

My son wants a kitten.  I do not.

I think they are cute and all that, but we already have a very nice dog.  My son is in college and I know that I will end up becoming the caretaker of the kitten, should he get one.

Still, even knowing this, I decided to let him negotiate with me for the acquiring of a kitten.  Because I do not really want a kitten, I have set my reservation point very high.  I told him that he would have to get on the Dean's list 3 semesters in a row.  Also, he will have to pay for the kitten's vet bills and food.  He has agreed to these parameters.  I have little worry since he's never been on the dean's list yet!  Was this a negotiation not in good faith?  Maybe...maybe not.

Actually, if he DOES end up getting on the Dean's list for three semesters then I think the negotiation will have been an interest-based success for both of us.  My interest is for his grades to improve and his interest is to have a kitten.  So if this negotiation succeeds it would be win win!


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